Resource Page

I will do my best to keep this page up-to-date with books, podcasts and other relevant media to spark your interest. Sometimes I put the same resource in different categories.

Books

  • The Stonewall Generation: LGBTQ Elders on Sex, Activism and Aging by Jane Fleishman

    Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers by Peggy Kleinplatz

    Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex by Joan Price

  • Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

    Coping with Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex by Michael E. Metz and Barry W. McCarthy

  • The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality by Julie Sondra Decker

    Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda Brown

    Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen

    A Quick and Easy Guide to Asexuality by Molly Muldoon and Will Hernandez

  • The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Eaton

    Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

    Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and their Clients) by Martha Kauppi

    Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino

  • Making Love Again: Hope for Couples Facing Loss of Sexual Intimacy by Keith and Virginia Laken

    Man Cancer Sex by Anne Katz

    Woman Cancer Sex by Anne Katz

    Regain that Feeling: Secrets to Sexual Self-Discovery: People Living with Spinal Cord Injuries Share Profound Insights into Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Orgasm and the Importance of Connectedness by Mitchell Tepper

    The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette

  • Beyond the Gender Binary by Alok Vaid-Menon

    Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for and by Transgender Communities  edited by Laura Erickson-Schroth

    Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments by Lucie Fielding

    Gender Magic:  Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy and Step into Your Most Authentic Self by Rae McDaniel

  • So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair our Love Lives by Ian Kerner

    Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections by Emily Nagoski

    How Sex Works: Why We Look, Smell, Taste, Feel and Act the Way We Do by Sharon Moalem

    Sizzling Sex for Life: Everything You Need to Know to Maximize Erotic Pleasure at Any Age by Michael Castleman

    Feel It All: A Therapist’s Guide to Reimagining Your Relationship with Sex by Casey Tanner

    The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin

    Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel

    Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides

  • The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity by Tammy Nelson

    The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel

    Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley Glass

  • The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stefani Goerlich

    The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink: Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul’s Transgressive Necessities by Douglas Thomas

    Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich

  • The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality by Daniel Watter

    Testosterone: An Unauthorized Biography by Rebecca Jordan-Young and Katrina Karkazis

    Contemporary Male Sexuality: Confronting Myths and Promoting Change by Emily and Barry McCarthy

  • Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It by Laurie Mintz

    Coping with Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner and Have Great Sex by Barry W. McCarthy and Michael Metz

    Learning to Orgasm in 4 Acts by Betty Dodson

    She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner

  • Desire: An Inclusive GUide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships by Lauren Fogel Mersy and Jennifer Vencill

    Sex Talks: Five Conversations that Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin

    Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together by Tammy Nelson

    Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman

    Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin Lehmiller

    Your Blueprint for Pleasure: Discover the 5 Erotic Types to Awaken--and Fulfill--Your Desires by Jaiya

    Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson

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  • Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement that Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free by Linda Kay Klein

    Sex Therapy with Religious Patients: Working with Jewish, Christian and Muslim Communities by Caleb Jacobson

    The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You've Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended by Sheila Wray Gregoire

    Unprotected Texts: The Bible's Surprising Contradictions About Sex and Desire by Jennifer Wright Knust

  • The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina—Separating the Myth from the Medicine  by Jen Gunter

    The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health with Facts and Feminism by Jen Gunter

Podcasts

Sexology Podcast

Our Better Half

The Trouble with Sex

Come As You Are

Sex with Dr. Jess

AlloAndAce